他再也不能接受这种状况了。
Things were not just lax, but loose, as though everyone but him had grown to accept the situation.这里的事物已不能说是松懈,应该拿放纵来形容,好像除了他以外,每个人都渐渐接受了这个处境。
Since you e not going to get rid of her, you might as well accept the situation and make the best of it.既然你没有可能摆脱她,那么你最好承认现实接受她,从而尽可能化不利为有利。