离婚跟相互间争执的增多没太大关系，但却与减少积极的情感关系密切。
But this mutual unease may have less to do with actual attitudes and far more to do with persistent female norms that few of us manage to shake off completely.但这种互相看不惯与实际态度无关，而与我们都无法完全摆脱的“女性常规”紧密相连。
So the reasons why karaoke performances sometimes work up to a violent crescendo have less to do with how we interact with one another and more with how we interact with music.因此有时候K歌招致暴力行为的原因并不在于和其他人的互动，而是跟我们和音乐的互动有关。
