这样你就暴露了自己的弱点你就完蛋了。
And he can't tell her what they'll do to him, if he's not back by dawn; never show weakness.而且他不能告诉她他们会怎样对待他,如果天亮前他回不去的话。千万不能露出自己的弱处。
There'u2019s a culture in our society that says remembering these obligations is somehow soft 'u2014that we can'u2019t show weakness, and so therefore we can'u2019t show kindness.我们的社会有这么一种文化(流行的看法),认为牢记我们相互之间所应承担的义务是一种软弱的表现,因此我们不应该对人表示关爱。